Sarah Page - Helper Angel
February is the month that highlights romantic love, with hearts, red roses and flowers more evident in the shops, cards are seen decorated with loving verse and cute images – yes it’s nearly 14th February, Valentines Day. However I am sure none of us really need a day reminding us that love is the core basis of romantic partnership, indeed love itself is woven into the very fabric of our lives and being, its creation and its flourishing expansion is what the universe spins upon (well in my humble opinion that is).
That the very lack of it, (or the feeling of the lack of it) can cause sadness, aloneness, depression, and all sorts of harrowing things to occur, for surely it is a lack of love for humanity, the earth and its inhabitants that is resulting in the carnage and destruction seen all over the world. This article is not about that however, but we can all see where a lack of love and ignorance in kindness and compassion, can lead us, it is not hard to find, and many of us may also have experienced it, or felt it at many points in our lives, both subtly and dramatically. How many times have you acted from that place at times when in a sense of fear, anger, retaliation, all as a result of being in a place that lacks a sense of love, and the true essence of peace that arrives after real unconditional love is experienced and integrated.
Yes real love is more than just romance, and it is that which runs energetically vibrating into the very smallest particle in the known universe and beyond. We came from love and will return to love when our physical incarnation in this lifetime ends, if you believe as I do, that we are spirit having a physical incarnation and experiencing this world from our own vantage point of beliefs, actions, conditions and awareness.
I realise that you are probably not seeing anything here that you don’t already know, but in the case of relationship and romantic love, I believe that there is more of an awakening for a truer sense of what this is all about and bringing that into all our relationships, including our romantic love ones.
It may be the kind of love that we were not able to witness from our parents (depending on our childhood experiences of course), as many experienced our parents own dysfunctionality in relationship and carried some of that misunderstanding and conditioning into our own (and their dysfunction with us). For many on the awakening journey we have been working on healing the very core beliefs and conditions that put us in a place of relationship trauma and dysfunction that has caused much of our adult heartbreak that may have put us on this path to begin with.
So let us just say that for all of those who have been on this healing, awakening, growth journey, understanding their own authenticity, truth and making peace with the past, that we are now ready to be in the relationship that is true, genuine, honest to goodness, conscious and aware, loving romantic relationship.
For those that are already in this mode of relationship, I am sure you are going to have a wonderful February 14th, and most days before and after that too. For others of us who have been doing the work and now feel ready to welcome that love in, I say it’s time to bring it on, to welcome it in, to say YES to relationship and work on clarity and calling in that soul mate or twin flame relationship, that all this transformation and change has been leading us to.
There are some however, who may have not long come out of relationship and as a consequence still feeling the sadness and loss, even anger of it all. To those I can only say what I am going to say for all of us, just make sure that whatever day it is, you truly welcome in the love for yourself, you celebrate who you are, embrace the journey, the dreams, the disasters and the lessons within that are tools for your growth, for you are a miracle, and you deserve genuine true and authentic love.
In order to help you in welcoming and attracting genuine love, here are some tips and areas to consider a focus upon, (recognise some areas may need special help and assistance if you are finding yourself in particular struggle and concern).
1.Work on healing and clearing out your energy and vibration of previous love and exes that may still be cluttering up your magnetic attraction to the “one”.
2.Work on letting go, work on forgiveness. Realise if you still have any issues to forgiving someone, for example you may hold some anger, bitterness or even still hold a wish to retaliate or see them suffer in some way, so you may not be able to fully forgive just yet as sometimes these things take time to work through. A good process to do and to learn is Radical Forgiveness, Colin Tipping wrote a book that explains the process and worksheets can be downloaded off the internet at www.radicalforgiveness.com.
3. Seek to discover if there are any core-beliefs or unconscious decisions and soul contracts you have made with yourself and others on a karmic level, as well as in this lifetime, past lifetimes could still have an effect that is actually preventing that love from actualising in your life now. Consider exploring this and it may require some clearing and releasing process work, even some past life regression – in all cases go within to see what feels right for you.
4. Consider what are your values, what are you seeking to have in a relationship, what are non-negotiable, for example if you are a vegan who never drinks alcohol, it perhaps fair to say that you are unlikely to want to be in a relationship with someone who spends frequent time in the pub, eating a meat filled kebab as they stagger home. Although that is highly unlikely from a vibrational attraction perspective that you get into relationship as you won’t probably be attracted vibrationally anyway, you can see how it helps to be clear what your values are and work on making sure you attract someone who shares them with you.
5. I believe that on a soul level we already have agreed to be together with all those that we already have, and all those that are due to enter, and to this effect this also applies to all the romantic partnerships in our lives. That does not mean however that your soul mate or twin flame will just arrive without any effort on your part, for it is the vibrational signature that you put out there that will help to bring them in. However, it is worth already forming a bond with that person now, energetically and consciously, therefore consider writing them a letter, and imagine connecting to their soul and with their energy. This is very powerful by the way.
6. Consider what you would like to have and share in the relationship in terms of experience. It could be travel, shared purpose and work, having children, etc... create a vision board that is purely based on relationship to help clarify and feel to what you are seeking to co-create with your loved one.
7. Most important of all, keep working on being happy, just for you, so happy in fact that it doesn’t really matter if that special one does turn up or not, as you will be having so much fun, and feel so fufilled that when they do you will be able to take the considered time to not rush things, and get to really be in truthful honest connection with each other, amongst other things. For indeed, it is the relationship with yourself that is the most important one you will ever have, and the longest one too, excepting your relationship with spirit and source, and well that’s just another level of relationship cultivation altogether to work on deepening too, and for me personally, a non-negotiable value.
If you want to work on bringing in your true love, and help on all the steps above, you may be interested in a workshop that is occurring on 5th February 2012 from 1pm, with me Sarah Page – Helper Angel, called Attracting True Love. Although at going to press there is only a couple of spaces left ... but am considering putting on another date of Sunday 12th February if demand is there (so please contact me if you wish to know more). This will be a small group of 7 people and we will be doing powerful meditations and processes to help support you and get you vibrationally aligned to the “one”. Check the website www.helperangel.co.uk for more details and for other workshops or psychic readings, mentoring/coaching and developmental workshops too.
Peace and blessings
Sarah Page – Helper Angel
Assisting you with the wings to fly
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